Browsing the archives for the Observations category.

Random Quotes

“The eyes believe themselves the ears believe other people.” (German proverb)
“A man does not die of love or his liver or even of old age he dies of being a man.” (Miguel de Unamuno)
“I am an eyewitness to the ways in which people relate to themselves and to each other, and my work is a way of scooping and ladling that experience.”
“I am an eyewitness to the ways in which people relate to themselves and to each other, and my work is a way of scooping and ladling that experience.” – Richard Neutra
“History is the study of lies, anyway, because no witness ever recalls events with total accuracy, not even eyewitnesses” – Nancy Pickard
Q: Were you present when your picture was taken? – A court joke
“Silence is as full of potential wisdom and wit as the unshown marble of great sculpture. The silent bear no witness against themselves.” – Aldous Huxley
“You never know how much a man can’t remember until he’s called a ‘witness'”.

CIMG1470“The eyes believe themselves the ears believe other people.” – German proverb

“A man does not die of love or his liver or even of old age he dies of being a man.” – Miguel de Unamuno

“I am an eyewitness to the ways in which people relate to themselves and to each other, and my work is a way of scooping and ladling that experience.” – Richard Neutra

“History is the study of lies, anyway, because no witness ever recalls events with total accuracy, not even eyewitnesses” – Nancy Pickard

Q: Were you present when your picture was taken? – A court joke

“Silence is as full of potential wisdom and wit as the unshown marble of great sculpture. The silent bear no witness against themselves.” – Aldous Huxley

“You never know how much a man can’t remember until he’s called a ‘witness'” – Will Rogers.

I’m Thankful For These…

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The smell of rain on concrete

Letters in my postbox

Winter jackets

WordPress

When it’s not too cold

Nieces, nephews and cousins

Poetry

Dapo

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New emails from unknown people

Computers

Blogging

Rasheed

Fall

Internet

Vera in her elements

Ifeoluwa

New emails from known people

Bicycles

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Kunle

Blog readers

Unoma

Cars

Ayo Enitan Alabi

Telephone

Non-random Facebook friend requests

Ivor Hartmann

Friends online and offline

Maha Rawan Salem

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Instant messaging

Ben

Lizzy Omote me

SMSes

Skype

Prof. Ogundeji

Cameras

My Chris-es (all of them)

Tayo when she smiles, when she’s generally happy, naughty, or when she threatens to break my head.

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Yemi Adesanya 🙂

Bukkies 😉

“Clarissa”

Rhode Island

Native wears

Adesuwa, when she laughs or giggles.

Lemonade

Twitter following by non-aliens

Popcorn

Pounded Yam

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Omolara

Egusi soup

Pizza

Temite, when her tweet begins with “OMG”

Prof. Afolayan

Buki

Laitan Olatubosun

Dimeji

Richard

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Fabulola when she’s so flippin possessive 😛

Movie theatres

Room A52, Mellamby Hall

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Maya Angelou

FLTA Busola

Bola

Tola

Rayo

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Eugene B. Remond

Mafoya

Delphic

Benches in public parks

Holly

Rudy Wilson

Amatoritsero

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Sara

Hot water

Cindy

Dolphins

Kim

Teddy

Books

DVDs

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My iPod

Laverne Wilson

234next.com, and their comments section

Francis Egbokhare

Mrs Akintunde

Duvets

Bimbo Benson

That little boy Aloofar, when I make him real raving mad. It reminds me of why I should have had a little brother.

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Socks

Detergent

Quarters and cents

Pillows

Kelly Carlin

Bumight, when she used to leave comments

My students, when they’re not trying to escape our class singing sessions

Adeleke Adesanya

Uche Peter Umez

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My students when they speak Yoruba

Reham, when she’s not being annoying or incomprehensible.

Audrey, when she’s not mistakenly speaking French to me or just being silly unnecessarily 😛

My colleagues at the department

Helen

Chicago

Google Analytics

Ron Schaefer

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Cranberry juice, even though I still don’t know why I buy it.

Grapes! 🙂

Apples

Bike helmets

George Carlin

Turkey, when it’s cooked in Nigerian pepper soup, and not baked the American way.

Belinda Carstens

Geet Vanaiik

Strong women

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Colours

Folasade, when she’s not making funny Yoruba comments on my Facebook pictures

Mohammed Ademilokun when we talk about his favourite subjects

Folake Oyedepo when she’s wearing one of those really nice African attires

Clement Odoje when he speaks his native dialect

Morakinyo when he is a little less tense, or flattering.

Fulbright

Karen Forsyth

Living!

* This my 180th post on this blog since it began in August, and since it’s Thanksgiving, these are a few of the things I’m grateful for, and more. There are so many things to  be thankful for. I don’t think I can exhaust this list.

I Almost Cried

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The movie “The Blind Side” which I saw today moved me in a way no other movie had done in a while. Was it the storyline? Yes. But it was also the incredible acting by Sandra Bullock and Quinton Aaron who played a working Tennessee mom and a homeless African American orphan who whose life was suddenly changed by a chance encounter. It is a serious true-life movie that looks at race, sports, social responsibility, discrimination, poverty, loyalty, love and trust in a way that shows the similarity in human condition and human compassion across boundaries, but it was portrayed with a very good dose of humour and good acting that makes it a delight. The actor who stole the show was actually the little boy Jae Head who played a 9-year old child of the family.

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I would give it five stars if only for the humour. There was a really funny part of the movie where Leigh Anne Tuohy (played by Sandra Bullock) receives a voice message on her phone from a distant relative who had just received her Christmas card and was staring at it as he spoke: “Leigh, I know I’ve had about five beers but I’ll let you have this anyway: Do you know that there’s a big coloured kid standing behind you in the Christmas card?” The joke is funnier in the context, so I’d recommend the movie for everyone. I could have sworn that more than five people around me had tears in their faces many times during the movie, and you have to see it for yourself to understand. I’ve just come off Wikipedia where the movie was cited as the “feel-good movie of the year”, also deserving of an Oscar, especially for Sandra Bullock.

So I didn’t shed any tears in the end. I just had a very good time, mostly laughing.

Random Blurry

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The Presidential Pardon

IMG_2903Here’s one of the most interesting displays of democratic ideals in the United States of America: a set of turkeys – yes the animals and not the humans from the country of Turkey – are set free by official pardon of the President. 🙂 By this I mean that an official decree is made that these animals are now set free from the penalty of death, and are free to go (“and sin no more” perhaps) and live their free lives. Isn’t it amazing? Oh the Americans! Nobody ever told us what eventually happened to the turkeys once they left the vicinity of the presidential presence, and perhaps wandered into a poor neighbourhood of a nearby state.

IMG_2890In any case, there was no such presidential decree, ceremonial or otherwise, in Edwardsville today as I stepped out of the house to my host’s Thanksgiving get-together. And God bless them too. Even if I was a vegetarian, today was one of those days when it was better to renounce the faith for the good of all humanity, and peace on earth. Well, maybe I exaggerate. In short, I had a very nice day. The food included turkey, of course, turnips, smoked bacon, bread, crab and sausage stuffing, green beans, potato pie (the real sweet potato), chocolates, whipped cream, ice cream of different flavours, sweet corn, cranberry sauce, salad and other fruits and drinks (sparkling wine, white wine, red wine, mojito and margaritas) – a very traditional American meal.

IMG_2953The get-together also included a diverse mix of people: My hosts, their beautiful daughter and her partner both from the state of Utah, their friends, neighbours white and black, acquaintances, a few elderly women looking gorgeous and us – the Africans. We had gone there with a Thanksgiving card, one of the ones that I bought since a few weeks ago, as well as a copy of Chimamanda Adichie’s Half of a Yellow Sun as a kind of present, which they both greatly appreciated. The repercussion of that thoughtless decision is now that I had to leave the house when the gathering eventually dispersed with a huge paper sack of very many great used books of fiction, history, non-fiction and poetry which, according to my host were already slated for giving away before we showed up. He loves us, that man, and he has asked us to come back for as many more books as we want, for his giving away. One of the things that North America is full of, if I may assume, is plenty great books to which I would never say no.

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It’s thanksgiving day, and because of that someone in Nigeria will receive a present of a sack of books, just as soon as I figure how to ship them out without depleting scarce resources…

For the rest, it was just a wonderful day of feasting and merrying. The turkeys that made it out this year with their necks intact had better thank God too with a large feast, and then go out and sin no more. That is, of course, until Christmas comes. Sigh, the precarious lives that livestocks live. Thus the riddle in one of my earlier cards: “What do you think the turkeys would say about the Thanksgiving holiday? Answer: Probably something fowl!”

So how did yours go? The Thanksgiving in America and the Sallah festivities in Nigeria?