As I discovered today much to my surprise, my Amigo Secreto is none other than Dr. Olga Bezhanova, a Professor of Spanish at my department. She it is who has been stalking me, leaving me nice poems on my office door, putting gifts in my mailbox which I didn’t know existed previously, and finally today presenting me with the gift of a fine Cougar branded shirt.
It was at a final departmental lunch on Friday afternoon at a place called Bella Milano where we dined to an Italian menu where our secret santas were revealed. My head of department Belinda Carstens (who teaches German) was equally surprised to find out that I was the one who has been leaving cards and other gift items on her office table when she’s not there, with help of course from my co-conspirators Catherine and Sherry who work at her office.
Perhaps the most uncanny of coincidences, and the punchline of this post, is that Dr. Olga Bezhanova is also none other than Clarissa, my favourite blog commenter. And this is the point where I explain that I couldn’t believe it either, because, for sure, the matchings were so totally random. And of all people in my department, she was the first person I had eliminated from my mind as a possible suspect in this game for a reason I can’t explain. But as it turns out, I was wrong. Her continued presence on my blog had added to the riddle, and the eventual surprise, when the secret was finally unveiled. “Everyone (reading your blog) is going to think that you have only one colleague at the department now,” she says, and I laugh because she was right, even though we were sitting at that lunch table of foreign language colleagues numbering over twenty.
Thank you ClarissOlga! That was fun.





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Clarissa at http://clarissasbox.blogspot.com
Oh my God, Kola!!! I’m a professor of SPANISH literature. Russian is not taught at our department, and if it eveer is, it will not be byme.
Do you hink we, the Russian-speakers, are only good for teaching our own languagee and literature??
Posted at December 19, 2009 on 10:34am.
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Kola Tubosun at http://www.ktravula.com
Oh, my apologies. Hmm. There’s so many languages in that department that it’s taking me time to figure out what everyone teaches.
Posted at December 19, 2009 on 11:03am.
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Clarissa at http://clarissasbox.blogspot.com
Thank you for saying I’m your favorite commenter! And I’m glad you liked the gift.
Posted at December 19, 2009 on 10:49am.
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Kola Tubosun at http://www.ktravula.com
You’re welcome Clarissa. My regards to Nick. You didn’t give him any breathing space at the table at all, literally
I hope he enjoyed the food.
Posted at December 19, 2009 on 11:05pm.
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Clarissa at http://clarissasbox.blogspot.com
I have no idea what you are hinting at with the breathing space.
And you now will have a new reader in him.
Posted at December 20, 2009 on 12:05am.
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Kola Tubosun at http://www.ktravula.com
LOL. You don’t want me to tell everybody what you were doing at the table the whole time, do you?
Posted at December 22, 2009 on 1:15am.
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ifeoluwa at http://YourWebsite
kola, when are you sending my gifts,too? Oh my! I certainly have missed out on a whole lot.
Posted at December 19, 2009 on 1:14pm.
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Kola Tubosun at http://www.ktravula.com
Send me your postal address, and I’ll send you something nice, although it might not get there in time for Christmas.
Posted at December 19, 2009 on 11:11pm.
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Temitayo at http://bookaholicblog.blogspot.com/
Hmm, very interesting how Clarissa ended up being your secret friend. What was it like when you found out she was the one? Was it not Clarissa who made a comment about the gift and perception of the ‘secret friend’? Anyway, sure she was laughing too every time you wrote about enjoying the thrill of having a secret friend. And to think that the secret friend was really ‘not’ secret…:)
Posted at December 19, 2009 on 3:47pm.
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Kola Tubosun at http://www.ktravula.com
I was surprised because she was the last person I expected. Apparently she has been enjoying my confusion all this time, while playing mind tricks on me. I can’t complain.
Posted at December 19, 2009 on 11:13pm.
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Clarissa at http://clarissasbox.blogspot.com
When I took Kola’s name out of a hat, I started laughing hysterically. The person who was passing the hat around, even got a little scared.
And I made comments about Kola’s secret friend on his blog on purpose, to throw him off. This was SO much fun. Once, he stopped me in the hallway just as I was taking a gift for him to his mailbox. I was so scared hee would see it, you can’t imagine.
This was truly a fantastic idea to play this game.
Posted at December 20, 2009 on 12:03am.
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Yemi Adesanya at http://YourWebsite
…sounds like so much fun.
Posted at December 21, 2009 on 9:12am.